Siggy’s Blurbs

You should never ever trap someone, put them in an untenable position.  It is not that you can’t.  You can.  Very seldom is it a good idea.  I do not care what it is.  It is not a good idea.

When you back an wild animal into a corner, you are apt to get hurt.  The principle is the same with humans.  Always give the other person a graceful way out.

We all want certain things done.  And mates want their other to do things.  And their is nothing wrong in giving your partner requests.  But give them an opportunity to perform them in their own timing.

Don’t say it must be done no matter what you think, no matter how much difficulty they are having doing it or whether they think it is even possible to fulfill your request.

Always be clear what effort you expect no matter what the results.  And let your partner rest.  Do not use the word “must”.  Never trap him/her.  It is always a bad idea.

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Sometimes the answer to something is no.  You can not will everything to completion.  Sometimes the answer to doing something is not now.  Sometimes it is later.

It is true, sometimes one can quit too early but sometimes no matter how much you want something done it is not right now.

Often it is not right now and sometimes it is never.  You can not will the universe.  You may think you can and maybe you were taught never to accept a thing can’t be done.  Nevertheless sometimes it just can’t be done.

The universe does have a set of laws.  And you can’t disobey them.  The result will always be same.  There is nothing wrong having the attitude it can always be done.

And it is certainly true a lot of times the person gives up too soon.  There is always a point where one has to quit saying they have tried their best.  Or try again another time.

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