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		<title>Comment on I Really Did Not Want To Discourage Tilla by L</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/05/15/i-really-did-not-want-to-discourage-tilla/comment-page-1/#comment-16692</link>
		<dc:creator>L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 01:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, Tilla is a real character !  I love your daily blogs, keep writing !</description>
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		<title>Comment on The Hospitality Of My Friends Is What Will Remain by You Tube free bot 2012</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/05/06/the-hospitality-of-my-friends-is-what-will-remain/comment-page-1/#comment-16393</link>
		<dc:creator>You Tube free bot 2012</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 06:59:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I do think this is a great site. I stumbledupon it ;) I may come back yet again since I bookmarked it. Money and freedom is the best way to change, may you be rich and continue to guide others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I do think this is a great site. I stumbledupon it <img src='http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  I may come back yet again since I bookmarked it. Money and freedom is the best way to change, may you be rich and continue to guide others.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Last Night I Flushed Three Fawns by Jasmine Taylor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jasmine Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 12:21:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>love the blog, very nice. i&#039;ve only recently started one and just getting some ideas. thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love the blog, very nice. i&#8217;ve only recently started one and just getting some ideas. thanks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;Big Woof&#8221; Lumbered Out Of The Door Barking Every Step of The Way by Milan Yearous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milan Yearous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 15:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I truly enjoy reading on this site, it has got superb blog posts. &quot;Beware lest in your anxiety to avoid war you obtain a master.&quot; by Demosthenes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I truly enjoy reading on this site, it has got superb blog posts. &#8220;Beware lest in your anxiety to avoid war you obtain a master.&#8221; by Demosthenes.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Am One Of The Lucky Ones:  My Medication Helps by siggy</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/01/12/i-am-one-of-the-lucky-ones-my-medication-helps/comment-page-1/#comment-13732</link>
		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 16:23:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara,
   Meds don&#039;t help a lot of people.  In fact, mess them up:  they can&#039;t think clearly and there are other equally bad side effects.  And doctors keep using them on those patients.  I am just one of the lucky ones.  They actually helped and I was not given a drug cock tail.  I still remember in the sixties and seventies being forced to take Thorazine in manic episodes and how awful it made me feel.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara,<br />
   Meds don&#8217;t help a lot of people.  In fact, mess them up:  they can&#8217;t think clearly and there are other equally bad side effects.  And doctors keep using them on those patients.  I am just one of the lucky ones.  They actually helped and I was not given a drug cock tail.  I still remember in the sixties and seventies being forced to take Thorazine in manic episodes and how awful it made me feel.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Feeling Shame Is The Worst Thing About Mental Illness by siggy</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/01/10/feeling-shame-is-the-worst-thing-about-mental-illness/comment-page-1/#comment-13731</link>
		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 16:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara,
   That is certainly true that we are all imperfect.   And people who are diagnosed mentally ill get singled out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara,<br />
   That is certainly true that we are all imperfect.   And people who are diagnosed mentally ill get singled out.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Feeling Shame Is The Worst Thing About Mental Illness by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/01/10/feeling-shame-is-the-worst-thing-about-mental-illness/comment-page-1/#comment-13533</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 22:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Siggy.  Shame is so darned debilitating. We would not have to feel shame about mental illness if our culture was one that nurtured those who were different, ill, old, misshapen.......as a culture, I think we miss the mark, and we allow ourselves to be led by magazines and TV, telling us what&#039;s perfect for us, perfect for our lives......there is no shame in having an illness that YOU DID NOT ASK FOR, DID NOT GIVE YOURSELF, COULD NOT AVOID. We need to educate ourselves about what it means to be imperfect because each and every one of us is imperfect in many ways!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Siggy.  Shame is so darned debilitating. We would not have to feel shame about mental illness if our culture was one that nurtured those who were different, ill, old, misshapen&#8230;&#8230;.as a culture, I think we miss the mark, and we allow ourselves to be led by magazines and TV, telling us what&#8217;s perfect for us, perfect for our lives&#8230;&#8230;there is no shame in having an illness that YOU DID NOT ASK FOR, DID NOT GIVE YOURSELF, COULD NOT AVOID. We need to educate ourselves about what it means to be imperfect because each and every one of us is imperfect in many ways!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Am One Of The Lucky Ones:  My Medication Helps by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2012/01/12/i-am-one-of-the-lucky-ones-my-medication-helps/comment-page-1/#comment-13532</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 22:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been attending a family workshop for those who love people with borderline personality disorder, and there is talk of meds, and how there are personality disorders (like bpd) for which meds don&#039;t seem to help.  We work with dialectic behavioral therapy, learning how to communicate better, and how to not let our own feelings escalate situations.  Siggy, I thank you many, many times mentally for your openness about mental illness.  You are a gift!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been attending a family workshop for those who love people with borderline personality disorder, and there is talk of meds, and how there are personality disorders (like bpd) for which meds don&#8217;t seem to help.  We work with dialectic behavioral therapy, learning how to communicate better, and how to not let our own feelings escalate situations.  Siggy, I thank you many, many times mentally for your openness about mental illness.  You are a gift!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Our Large Wooden Picket Fence Transformed Our Yard by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/12/24/our-large-wooden-picket-fence-transformed-our-yard/comment-page-1/#comment-12014</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 02:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let&#039;s see......I just read a bunch!  I, too, love a fence.  Black moods do follow bad sleep, but for me, they follow several nights of incomplete sleep.  Then, I don&#039;t know if they&#039;re black or merely kind of grey.  I&#039;m not me.  But, then, who am I?  The TV blurb made me smile.  Oh, and the MP3, too.  It&#039;s nice to have so much music at our fingertips, but sometimes I&#039;m just overwhelmed by the whole technological scene. When will it be too much?

Merry Christmas, Siggy!  Wishing you a lovely 2012!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s see&#8230;&#8230;I just read a bunch!  I, too, love a fence.  Black moods do follow bad sleep, but for me, they follow several nights of incomplete sleep.  Then, I don&#8217;t know if they&#8217;re black or merely kind of grey.  I&#8217;m not me.  But, then, who am I?  The TV blurb made me smile.  Oh, and the MP3, too.  It&#8217;s nice to have so much music at our fingertips, but sometimes I&#8217;m just overwhelmed by the whole technological scene. When will it be too much?</p>
<p>Merry Christmas, Siggy!  Wishing you a lovely 2012!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Birds Outside My Window by siggy</title>
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		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still love watching birds even after a lifetime of doing so.  Yesterday we Lynelle saw a pair of bald eagles  and one red tailed hawk.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still love watching birds even after a lifetime of doing so.  Yesterday we Lynelle saw a pair of bald eagles  and one red tailed hawk.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Clothes Must Breed In Secret In My Closet by siggy</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/12/04/my-clothes-must-breed-in-secret-in-my-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-11463</link>
		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your last comment reminds me of the joke:  What is worse than losing one glove?  The answer:  throwing away the other and then finding the first.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your last comment reminds me of the joke:  What is worse than losing one glove?  The answer:  throwing away the other and then finding the first.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Some Thoughts Why I Am Hesitant To Go To A High School Reunion by siggy</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/12/08/some-thoughts-why-i-am-hesitant-to-go-to-a-high-school-reunion/comment-page-1/#comment-11462</link>
		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:21:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yah, I really no longer that interested in going to any reunion.   There really is not too much for me there.  It is just too long ago and I am not the same person.  Siggy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yah, I really no longer that interested in going to any reunion.   There really is not too much for me there.  It is just too long ago and I am not the same person.  Siggy</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Birds Outside My Window by Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bird TV is the best!  A sad note........we had a very athletic squirrel figure out how to drop many feet from the pine tree onto the feeders, which hang on a shepherd&#039;s hook type thing.  We found him dead this week.  Apparently he misjudged the jump and hurt his little heart when he hit the hook.  We buried him in the Zen garden, lovingly, thanking him for his entertaining antics.

I love your dog stories.....and, what&#039;s the deal with your primroses??  I now have that song &quot;Primrose Lane&quot; stuck in my brain and I can&#039;t make it go away!

ARGGGGGHHHHH</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bird TV is the best!  A sad note&#8230;&#8230;..we had a very athletic squirrel figure out how to drop many feet from the pine tree onto the feeders, which hang on a shepherd&#8217;s hook type thing.  We found him dead this week.  Apparently he misjudged the jump and hurt his little heart when he hit the hook.  We buried him in the Zen garden, lovingly, thanking him for his entertaining antics.</p>
<p>I love your dog stories&#8230;..and, what&#8217;s the deal with your primroses??  I now have that song &#8220;Primrose Lane&#8221; stuck in my brain and I can&#8217;t make it go away!</p>
<p>ARGGGGGHHHHH</p>
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		<title>Comment on Some Thoughts Why I Am Hesitant To Go To A High School Reunion by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/12/08/some-thoughts-why-i-am-hesitant-to-go-to-a-high-school-reunion/comment-page-1/#comment-11459</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom says you are having a existential moment!  High school reunions are to a degree, false.  People put on their reunion faces and try to step back into time for a night or a week-end.  Some think that they are in love with their old sweethearts......and some are.  You have much to show for your life, Siggy.  Reread the eulogy that I wrote for you.  You have Saul and Emma.  You have amazing knowledge of produce!!  Your writing has touched many hearts.  It doesn&#039;t matter what others have done with their lives.  You have made the best of your own!!!! (Secretly, I have always wanted to be at my high school reunion as a waitress......simply watching.)  So many of my high school class have died!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom says you are having a existential moment!  High school reunions are to a degree, false.  People put on their reunion faces and try to step back into time for a night or a week-end.  Some think that they are in love with their old sweethearts&#8230;&#8230;and some are.  You have much to show for your life, Siggy.  Reread the eulogy that I wrote for you.  You have Saul and Emma.  You have amazing knowledge of produce!!  Your writing has touched many hearts.  It doesn&#8217;t matter what others have done with their lives.  You have made the best of your own!!!! (Secretly, I have always wanted to be at my high school reunion as a waitress&#8230;&#8230;simply watching.)  So many of my high school class have died!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sun Lay On The Mountain Across The Mile Wide River by Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, beauty is all around us if we just take the time to notice.  I think we have to stay mindful and present in order to really enjoy those moments offered to us daily!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, beauty is all around us if we just take the time to notice.  I think we have to stay mindful and present in order to really enjoy those moments offered to us daily!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Clothes Must Breed In Secret In My Closet by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/12/04/my-clothes-must-breed-in-secret-in-my-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-11457</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE your humorous writing.  The concept of clothes reproducing when we aren&#039;t looking would be great for stand up comedy!  I think most of us have too many clothes, too many choices on any given day.  The thing I hate is when you have a piece that you love.....and you get rid of it......and then you forget that you got rid of it.......and you search for it until your brain FINALLY tells you that it is gone.....and you FEEL BAD!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE your humorous writing.  The concept of clothes reproducing when we aren&#8217;t looking would be great for stand up comedy!  I think most of us have too many clothes, too many choices on any given day.  The thing I hate is when you have a piece that you love&#8230;..and you get rid of it&#8230;&#8230;and then you forget that you got rid of it&#8230;&#8230;.and you search for it until your brain FINALLY tells you that it is gone&#8230;..and you FEEL BAD!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Labor Day Weekend And Someone Turned A Switch by Yosh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yosh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 06:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Best Links 2011...&lt;/strong&gt;

We are a group of volunteers and starting a new scheme in our community. Your web site offered us with valuable info to work on. You&#039;ve done a formidable job and our whole community will be grateful to you....</description>
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<p>We are a group of volunteers and starting a new scheme in our community. Your web site offered us with valuable info to work on. You&#8217;ve done a formidable job and our whole community will be grateful to you&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8216;It&#8217;s just a shame that this happened to him.&#8217;  Death Claims Us All! by siggy</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/09/05/its-just-a-shame-that-this-happened-to-him-death-claims-us-all/comment-page-1/#comment-9337</link>
		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 22:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Death is such a taboo subject.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Permanence Is Only An Illusion by siggy</title>
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		<dc:creator>siggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 22:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We act as if we are going to live forever and when it is evident we are not going to, we act surprised or shocked.</description>
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		<title>Comment on &#8216;It&#8217;s just a shame that this happened to him.&#8217;  Death Claims Us All! by Sara</title>
		<link>http://siggyscafe.com/Blog/2011/09/05/its-just-a-shame-that-this-happened-to-him-death-claims-us-all/comment-page-1/#comment-9335</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 22:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We just don&#039;t have a comfort zone with dying.......and that might be fear-based, I suppose.  I liked your blurbs on too much stuff, alcoholism, and gratitude, too.  Letting go of stuff is so incredibly freeing.  It takes a huge amount of courage, though, and the belief that we are not our stuff, and life will go on just fine without it.  Alcoholism has deeply impacted my life, and I am grateful that I can have a lovely glass of wine and put the rest away for another time. I have always thought that my dad just didn&#039;t know how super a person he was sober.  He died at age 64, just four years older than I am now. What a loss.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We just don&#8217;t have a comfort zone with dying&#8230;&#8230;.and that might be fear-based, I suppose.  I liked your blurbs on too much stuff, alcoholism, and gratitude, too.  Letting go of stuff is so incredibly freeing.  It takes a huge amount of courage, though, and the belief that we are not our stuff, and life will go on just fine without it.  Alcoholism has deeply impacted my life, and I am grateful that I can have a lovely glass of wine and put the rest away for another time. I have always thought that my dad just didn&#8217;t know how super a person he was sober.  He died at age 64, just four years older than I am now. What a loss.</p>
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