Jul
4
2010
I Have No Control Of My Other But I Do Of Me
Author: siggyI have no control of my wife but I do of me. I can not fix her and Lord knows I have tried repeatedly with very little success. I do have control of me and this revelation may appear to be obvious but I am an extremely slow learner and this idea I can only control me frees me. Paradoxically I may be able to change her behavior by concentrating on mine but I can not act with that in mind. I have to love her freely and not do anything because I am trying to change her for that is manipulation on my part. All this is very freeing to me.
