Sometimes your woman just wants to be held.  No explanations.  No words–just held tightly when her world has collapsed.  I keep forgetting this.  And have to remind myself.  A hug will just suffice.  And hold her until she lets go.  It is so simple but I forget this.  Hugs do wonders.  Don’t try to help her with your explanations.  Just hug her until she lets go.