Each person creates their own hell.  Each of us are flawed and struggle with different things.  Telling yourself your situation is not as bad as someones else does not help.

It is too easy for you to point out others’ flaws.  Usually you are blind to your own.  Each person has their own reality.  And your struggles are unique.

Somehow you have to look at yourself from the outside as if you were stranger to see how you truly are.  This is very difficult to do.  Friends’ (and enemies’) feedback can help.

Their feedback can possibly suggest better, more productive ways of dealing with your problems.  Most of the time you are your own worst enemy.  You create your own hell.