I was the older man in her life.  She used to have a close relationship with her Dad.  Then he was no longer there.  We started talking for hours at a time.  She broke her foot and was sidelined for several months at home so I started calling her at home.  She told me she did not have a relationship with a older male since her Dad passed.  Her husband did not care I talked to her but I had to discontinue calling her and having long talks.  My wife did not want me talking to her.  It was a little odd being considered the older man, which I was; but I never viewed myself as such.  Anyway, I stopped the calls.