Mar
20
2011
Others Can’t Help Revealing Themselves
Author: siggyOthers can’t help revealing themselves: all you have to do to understand this is to eavesdrop on peoples’ conversations. What is occupying their minds, their present concerns comes out in their speech to other people.
Sometimes if you know the person, what is left out is revealing. Other times you discover what is really on their minds when you listen. Of course, some people are closed books and keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves.
Even then, you have some idea how they are doing: ninety per cent of communication is non-verbal. You have to look past the words they utter.
For others, you have to sense what they are saying jives with their body language. In any case, most people can’t help revealing themselves one way or another. You just have to pay attention.
Tags: body language, closed books, communication, conversations, eavesdrop, feelings, non-verbal, pay attention, reveal themselves, speech, thoughts, words
