Oct
23
2009
A Marriage Is Built (Or Torn Down)…
Author: siggyA marriage is built (or town down) one piece at a time. The large things come along only once in awhile. Everything in a marriage has to be worked out: who cooks, pays the bills, is in charge of the finances–every detail between the two of you has to be worked out.
If you can not agree about the details, your marriage is in trouble. In every solid marriage, really an miniature organization, most of the details over the years have been worked out and there is a minimum of discord.
In unresolved conflict, you fight about almost everything and your marriage is in danger. Every detail between the two of you has to be resolved–at least most of them in order for your marriage to run smoothly.
I like what Scott Peck says in one of his books, ‘People get married for the friction.’ Can you think of a more common institution to change you than marriage? A marriage is forged degree by degree.
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